Hidden Messages Chart Interpretation for

Demarco Jace
February 28, 1978
12:18 AM
Sedonna, Arizona

HIDDEN MESSAGES

INTRODUCTION

We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think, "Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."

So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmed to duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone who loved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.

How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a conscious look at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.

This program is designed to help us do just that.

Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:

Sun 9 Pis 03 Pluto 16 Lib 15

Moon 8 Sco 56 N. Node 7 Lib 29

Mercury 9 Pis 49 Asc. 13 Sag 22

Venus 17 Pis 56 MC 10 Vir 28

Mars 22 Can 19 2nd cusp 11 Cap 01

Jupiter 26 Gem 11 3rd cusp 9 Aqu 32

Saturn 26 Leo 11 5th cusp 13 Ari 01

Uranus 16 Sco 23 6th cusp 14 Tau 26

Neptune 18 Sag 12

Tropical Placidus Standard time observed

GMT: 00:18:00 Time Zone: 0 hours West

Lat. and Long. of birth: 0 N 00 0 W 00

Aspects and orbs:

Conjunction: 10 Degrees

Opposition : 10 Degrees

Square : 10 Degrees

Trine : 10 Degrees

Sextile : 7 Degrees

HIDDEN MESSAGES

PROGRAMMING

She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successful business woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for a consultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages had been unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my office because she honestly wondered if that were possible.

In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career. Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been married several times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, her mother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'T STAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of her husbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant and unaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created this situation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a good fight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THEN LEAVE.

The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet kept turning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them. She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.

Her fiancé played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success in his career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. His ambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. His programming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successful in his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremely prestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son was programmed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area of life.

His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN WOMEN.

These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; a business failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm, loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, the first reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these two people were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each was programmed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could, if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm, loving relationship.

This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious that we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOU CANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you are never happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, just knowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feel bad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.

Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (OR MOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, you will see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of a success in his life, where does that leave you?

We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives will work. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or at least the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, we can be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.

YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES

THE SUN

Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helps you form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.

Sun in Pisces:

Your father taught you to be creative, inspired and idealistic. He gave you a discontent with what is. He taught you to either serve or escape responsibility.

Sun in 3rd house:

Your father's message is that when he speaks you are to listen. You think a lot like him, which means you think in terms of power and authority. He taught you that your ideas are important. Your ideas are also creative, but you can be so attached to them that you want others to listen to you and agree with you.

Sun in soft aspect to Moon:

At the time of your birth, your parents were in harmony, indicating that the male and female qualities are balanced within you. Your parents' positive relationship was a good role model, enabling you to have fulfilling interpersonal relationships. You get along well with both men and women.

Sun in hard aspect to Mercury:

Your father has a one-track mind, making it hard for him to concentrate on more than one thing at a time. He can only discuss what is of interest to him. You are the same way. He does not give you enough space to be objective about him.

Sun in soft aspect to Uranus:

Your father is inventive, intuitive and individualistic. He encourages you to be your own person. He has a strong humanitarian side that puts the welfare of the group first. He is unique and comfortable with himself. He has passed this along to you.

Sun in hard aspect to Neptune:

Your concept of your father is not clear, either because you have him on a pedestal, or because he refused his paternal responsibilities and was not there for you. He is either an inspiration or a disappointment. In either case, the issue is clouded. You tend to see yourself the same way: either you are wonderful or of no worth at all. You can be manipulated by guilt and may have a tendency to indulge in self-pity or martyrdom.

YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE

THE MOON

The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both the mother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said that since the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers this memory, which is why her influence is so strong.

Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon is placed natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received this message either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of your life looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes your mother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to find the security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive. Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be there this time.

Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actions as well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.

Moon in Scorpio:

Your mother is deep, intense and controlled. She instinctively understands how to manipulate and control, and passed this along to you. The need to be in control at all times, in all situations, is your top priority and gives you security. There can be a power play between you and your mother. Both of you remember past hurts and find it hard to forgive out of a desire for retribution. Your true security comes from letting go and letting God.

Moon in 11th house:

Your mother taught you to be a humanitarian, a friend. However, SHE is to be your close friend. She taught you to have unusual friends, to mother them, and to look to them for your emotional security, which can also come from being a friend. Nevertheless, your inner circle can change along with your hopes, wishes and goals. Your true freedom comes from letting go of your emotional attachment to your friends.

Moon in soft aspect to Sun:

At the time of your birth, your parents were in harmony, indicating that the male and female qualities are balanced within you. Your parents' positive relationship gave you a good role model, enabling you to have fulfilling interpersonal relationships. You get along well with both men and women.

Moon in soft aspect to Mercury:

Your mother is able to express herself clearly, and there is good communication between the two of you. This extends to communication with all women and the public in general. There is harmony between your conscious and subconscious minds, giving you the ability to articulate your thoughts well.

Moon in soft aspect to Venus:

Your mother is loving and giving, and there is a beautiful bond of love between the two of you. You, in turn, are loving and giving. You attract fulfilling relationships and friends who care about you.

Moon in hard aspect to Uranus:

Your mother is unpredictable and you never know what to expect of her. She taught you to rebel. You both want freedom. As a result, relationships can end suddenly and unexpectedly. You attract self-willed, erratic people to you.

MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES

Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father, grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teach you reality through discipline.

Saturn in Leo:

The authority figures in your life acted like they were born to rule. They passed this along to you. It is hard for a king to show love. Pride gets in the way and builds walls between monarch and subjects.

Saturn in 9th house:

The authority figures in your life may have indicated that God is wrathful, vengeful, and should be feared. Their philosophical approach was probably a traditionally religious one. Your philosophy involves respect for and fear of power, and you take your beliefs seriously.

Saturn in soft aspect to Jupiter:

The authority figures in your life were judicial, fair and taught you to balance what you want to do with what you feel you ought to do. Their philosophy helps you combine God's law with man's law. You are able to see both sides of the picture. You have a wisdom that belies your age. Your message is: every cloud has a silver lining.

Saturn in hard aspect to Uranus:

You are torn between breaking free and assuming your responsibilities. You rebel against being told what to do, and resent any restriction to your freedom. Yet, you feel compelled to go along with the program, even half-heartedly. The authority figures in your life felt trapped between two generations, and you may feel the same way. You can identify with older as well as younger people, traditional and non-traditional groups. You vacillate between towing the line and breaking free. The double message you received from your authority figures is: rebel, but conform.

Saturn in soft aspect to Neptune:

The authority figures in your life helped you put your dreams into action by looking at them realistically. You have a certain reverence for authority figures. You can combine mysticism with religion, and bring a practical approach to the metaphysical. You're not afraid to examine your dreams in the light of day.

PLUTO

Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Pluto represents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with all the mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto and the aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towards sex.

Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where you will both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. You control because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.

While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use whichever word applies to you.

Pluto in Libra:

Pluto in 11th house:

Your mother's message is to be a friend, but to control any group in which you participate so that they don't control you. However, SHE is your most controlling friend and can switch roles from friend to mother. This confuses you and makes you mistrust her. Your friends see you as powerful, but manipulative.

Pluto in hard aspect to Mars:

You may feel strong, yet suppressed resentment at the control your mother exerts over you, and an equally strong need to retaliate. Past hurts are hard to forget, which creates the desire for vindication and conquest. Your competitive side and sexual energies are strong and can get out of hand, which can force you into precipitous action. The underlying feeling of this aspect is KILL OR BE KILLED.

Pluto in soft aspect to Jupiter:

You and your mother are good friends. You may share similar philosophies and/or give each other the space to have your own opinions. She taught you to be optimistic, generous and friendly. As a result, you are well-liked. You have a natural understanding of universal law that gives you peace--you know that everything is working out for the best.

Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:

There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and you have vision and insight.

Pluto in hard aspect to North and South Nodes:

The misuse of psychic energies in past lives can lead you to use manipulation and control in order to get your way. This can backfire. The inability to trust your mother and the fear of being controlled makes it difficult for you to trust.

THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES

The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes the parent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the mother rulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home and cared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides the emotional security.

The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It is your father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenth house traditionally relates to him.

There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles. Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine which parent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.

The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and the security they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you need from one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lack of emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, can become a parent replacement.

The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding your parents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate the descriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.

Pisces on 4th Cusp:

This parent is finicky and worries a lot. He/she wants to serve and be needed.

Virgo on 10th Cusp:

This parent is a dreamer, an idealist who either inspires you or lets you down. He/she loves make-believe.

Venus in 4th house:

This parent is charming and loving, unless Venus is poorly aspected, in which case the parent is self-indulgent and tries to "buy" your love.

North Node in 4th or 10th house:

While you may be tempted to listen to or follow the South Node parent, the North Node parent is the one who will help you learn your greatest lessons.

South Node in 4th or 10th house:

You have already learned a great deal from this parent in past lives. It is time to turn your attention to the lessons the North Node parent is teaching you. There can be disappointment, even losses involved with the South Node parent if you expect too much of him/her.

THE ROVING DELEGATES

The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the area of life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one area of life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.

It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with its ruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the ruler of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in the eleventh. The same concept applies in each case.

The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding that parent's messages.

Ruler of 4th house in 1st:

This parent has a direct influence on you, telling you to be yourself, but influencing you to be like him or her. You may look like this parent. Your emotional security need is fulfilled by being yourself.

Ruler of 10th house in 3rd:

Authority figures, and this parent in particular, influence your thinking. You think in terms of power, authority and responsibility.

A FINAL WORD

Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever or if there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it and yourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you are coming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know that you are protected and loved.